

For vulva-to-penis couples, the vulva owner should be on top. And of course, there's also a way to incorporate solo-play time.įor couples with a vulva partner and penis partner, start by getting into a missionary position where both partners face each other.
The partner on the bottom can use a penis or a sex toy, while the partner on top can be penetrated vaginally or anally. Try doggy style and reverse cowgirl to get started, and check out these 36 positions you need to try in your lifetime for more butt-centric sex ideas.The Amazon position works nicely for all genders. That's because switching up your style allows you to discover more ways to integrate cheek play into intercourse, she says. Trying a variety of positions is also beneficial for your butt pleasure, says Queen. RELATED: Apparently There Are 5 Different Types of Butts-Which One Do You Have? Have some fun figuring out what turns you on. At the same time, pushing them together can also be stimulating.

Since those butt crack nerves signal the genitals, pulling your cheeks apart (or his) can feel very satisfying, says Queen. A big thwack out of the blue is only a turn on for some people, so make sure you know your partner's style before giving it a go. Also, it's important to make the first smack rather gentle and sensual, says Queen. "Spanking feels most erotic right on the bottom swell of the cheeks," she says. But, like the ass grab, it's all about the technique. Some light spanking can spice up your go-to sex positions. Butt cracks, FTW! RELATED: We Can Guess Your Go-To Sex Position Based on Your Zodiac Sign Fun fact: The nerves in the cleft are connected to the genitals, making this a very erotically sensitive part of your derriere. the crack) near the anus, which is especially sensitive for men and women, she says. Try to get your fingertips in the cleft (a.k.a.

But to amp up this move, be strategic about your hand-to-booty placement. And your cheeks are wonderful for grabbing onto while thrusting (giver and receiver can enjoy this), says Queen. Play icon The triangle icon that indicates to playĪ good old ass grab can have a lot of sexual power.
